I hate to whine about this stuff again, but dont really have anyone else to "talk" to.
As some know, my wife left me 1yr and 8 months ago. After a while we started "seeing" each other again occasionally. Things kinda went back to normal, she acts like she likes me again etc, been on dates etc. She acts like everything is fine and normal. She just has her place and does her own thing and I have mine. She seems completely content like this. Every couple of months I get very serious about it and make it very clear that I will not live like this forever. She just blows it off.
On top of this, she has been hanging around with some very trashy "friends" the last year or so. I have found out they smoke dope in front my son. They basically have an "open marriage". Not the kind of people I want my son around. I have confronted her about this and she acts like its no big deal but did say she would get them to stop smoking in front of my son. I dont know if that has happened since or not. I know she sees them multiple times a week.
So at this point it is clear she is headed down the wrong path, has made no attempt or indication that anything will change with us, blows me off when I bring it up.
As far as I know she hasnt cheated ( but not naive enough to believe she hasnt ). So Im stuck. My family says as long as she hasnt cheated I should wait. Even if I have to wait forever. But I feel like Im being used. Basically abused. Left here to wait while she does what she wants, and I am supposed to sit idly by till she changes her mind. While she KNOWS I will sit here and wait! Really?
Dont know what to do, but getting extremely frustrated with the situation. Maybe angry is the right word....
As some know, my wife left me 1yr and 8 months ago. After a while we started "seeing" each other again occasionally. Things kinda went back to normal, she acts like she likes me again etc, been on dates etc. She acts like everything is fine and normal. She just has her place and does her own thing and I have mine. She seems completely content like this. Every couple of months I get very serious about it and make it very clear that I will not live like this forever. She just blows it off.
On top of this, she has been hanging around with some very trashy "friends" the last year or so. I have found out they smoke dope in front my son. They basically have an "open marriage". Not the kind of people I want my son around. I have confronted her about this and she acts like its no big deal but did say she would get them to stop smoking in front of my son. I dont know if that has happened since or not. I know she sees them multiple times a week.
So at this point it is clear she is headed down the wrong path, has made no attempt or indication that anything will change with us, blows me off when I bring it up.
As far as I know she hasnt cheated ( but not naive enough to believe she hasnt ). So Im stuck. My family says as long as she hasnt cheated I should wait. Even if I have to wait forever. But I feel like Im being used. Basically abused. Left here to wait while she does what she wants, and I am supposed to sit idly by till she changes her mind. While she KNOWS I will sit here and wait! Really?
Dont know what to do, but getting extremely frustrated with the situation. Maybe angry is the right word....
Classy folks. 
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