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    I feel so guilty!

    My 20 year old daughter and I hunted harder than we ever have. Probably because when the season started we had pictures of 3 mature bucks that I wanted to go after. My 12 yr old killed one of them at the beginning of the season, and my 20 yr old and I started hunting on weekends when she was home from college and Christmas break. The mature bucks just seemed to disappear. I am very proud of her for passing legal deer in the process, but I am afraid she did that more for me than her. We hunted muzzleloader last Saturday and she went back to school not filling her tag for the first time ever. I have not shot a deer myself in 10 years. I have been guiding the kids and letting them shoot any legal deer they wanted. To make it even worse I had a chance to go Thursday afternoon and one of the bucks came out at 4:45 and I harvested him with the CVA. She seemed really happy for me, but it is bittersweet. I had gotten so serious about trophy hunting in the past that I ruined deer hunting for me. I started taking the kids and letting them shoot whatever they wanted and it became fun again. Next season they can shoot what ever they want. Sorry for the long read.

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    If it ever stops being fun I will stop doing it. I get as much enjoyment or more seeing my kids shoot the deer

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      #3
      Originally posted by AntlerCollector View Post
      If it ever stops being fun I will stop doing it. I get as much enjoyment or more seeing my kids shoot the deer
      Yessir....and the first time a really big buck doesn’t get my heart pumpin I’ll quit as well.

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        #4
        My daughter isn’t old enough to hunt yet but she already tells me she wants to go. I would venture to guess it will be the same for me where she will be doing the shooting and me watching.


        Sierracharlie out…

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          #5
          Originally posted by AntlerCollector View Post
          If it ever stops being fun I will stop doing it. I get as much enjoyment or more seeing my kids shoot the deer
          This this this

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            #6
            Sometimes our obsessions can ruin anything. It is fun to hunt. Good reminder sir.

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              #7
              Originally posted by AntlerCollector View Post
              If it ever stops being fun I will stop doing it. I get as much enjoyment or more seeing my kids shoot the deer
              I still get excited. But not as much. Maybe because I need to get out more and enjoy it without my work phone. Once my grandsons are old enough to hunt It’s going to be all about them.

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                #8
                Sounds like your daughter needs a better guide....

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                  #9
                  My granddaughter is one of the reasons I still hunt seriously---opening morning couple of years ago I shot a doe and it was laying in the truck bed. She walked up and rubbed its neck a bit and said "she has really pretty eyes". I didn't know what to expect next--tears maybe? But what I heard was now a family classic---"When will the buck sticks be ready?"

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                    #10
                    Originally posted by Smart View Post
                    Sounds like your daughter needs a better guide....
                    Thanks, you always know the right thing to say I have noticed. Sure glad you don’t kick a man when he is down.

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                      #11
                      Originally posted by dustoffer View Post
                      My granddaughter is one of the reasons I still hunt seriously---opening morning couple of years ago I shot a doe and it was laying in the truck bed. She walked up and rubbed its neck a bit and said "she has really pretty eyes". I didn't know what to expect next--tears maybe? But what I heard was now a family classic---"When will the buck sticks be ready?"
                      THAT IS GREATNESS!
                      I talked to her today and I do feel a little better. She is coming home this weekend to go to DU banquet and hear Gary P Nunn , and we are going to kill some pigs, yotes, and cats.

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                        #12
                        Post up pics. Congrats. I’ve been a kid guide now for years and thinking next year I may actually hunt again

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                          #13
                          My son took his first few this year. Two doe with a crossbow, (yeah bought one and enjoyed every bit of it), and then he shot a nice 8 with my rifle. The enjoyment, and time spent was terrific. He has been going with me since he was 2. This year he turns 10.
                          -Thank you for the reminder not to restrict him like I do myself. I am definitely no trophy hunter, but I do try to be very conscious about what I take.

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                            #14
                            Originally posted by Mohawkman View Post
                            Thanks, you always know the right thing to say I have noticed. Sure glad you don’t kick a man when he is down.


                            [emoji23][emoji23][emoji23]. Good luck next year! I don’t have any kids but I only shoot one or two deer a year and my remaining 5 deer lease allotment is filled by lease members’ kids or guests. I enjoy sharing that as much, if not more than killing a big deer myself.[emoji1303]

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                              #15
                              Originally posted by RascalArms View Post
                              Yessir....and the first time a really big buck doesn’t get my heart pumpin I’ll quit as well.
                              X2 on that Joel !!

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