Folks I hadn’t seen or spoken to my sister since 2013. We had parted ways before that for the way she had treated my mom and dad. I had forgiven her for that, and God had turned my anger at her and her children to pity. I reached out to her a couple of times but nothing changed.
Fast forward to this past Monday. I went by our CPA,s office to retrieve our sons taxes. The cpa asked me if I’d spoken to my sister lately. We both have used the same lady for decades. I told her no She informed me that my sister had died from cancer in March of this year. And her husband had died last year.
I was floored, shocked, and saddened to say the least. All I could think of was my niece and nephew losing both their parents in as many years. I had figured that my sister would live as long as our mom did, 89 years, be a grandmother etc,etc. but it didn’t happen.
Im still trying to sort all this out but wanted to encourage y’all to at least make an effort to reconnect with family, if possible. Had I not tried to reconcile this would have been a lot harder on me. We not guaranteed today folks, let alone tomorrow.
Fast forward to this past Monday. I went by our CPA,s office to retrieve our sons taxes. The cpa asked me if I’d spoken to my sister lately. We both have used the same lady for decades. I told her no She informed me that my sister had died from cancer in March of this year. And her husband had died last year.
I was floored, shocked, and saddened to say the least. All I could think of was my niece and nephew losing both their parents in as many years. I had figured that my sister would live as long as our mom did, 89 years, be a grandmother etc,etc. but it didn’t happen.
Im still trying to sort all this out but wanted to encourage y’all to at least make an effort to reconnect with family, if possible. Had I not tried to reconcile this would have been a lot harder on me. We not guaranteed today folks, let alone tomorrow.
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