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Originally posted by miket View Post
So.embarrased I'm so gullible. I knew somehow I was being dumb. Just wanted to do what's right.
Take charge. Get a lawyer. Cancel all your credit cards. Close your joint banking. Do it now! If you don't you will be whining about her ruining you
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Originally posted by miket View PostSome may be familiar with my issues in the past years. I hate to air all this out publically but need a friend right now. Been married 13yrs. She has left 3 times but I held on to my commitment since as far as I know she never cheated. Last time.she was gone 2yrs. We reconciled and she came back maybe 8mo ago. We have a son and stepdaughter ( her daughter ). She decided to become a flight attendant and went to training in Oct. I have been taking care of the kids. She is gone 18-20 days a month.
Over the years I have asked her to never cheat, if she wants someone else to just let me know. Been cheated on before. She always agreed she never would.
Saw changes in the last few months and gently prodded her. She finally told me Tuesday that she doesn't love me anymore and wants a divorce.
Found out today that she has cheated, and also told other people ( many months ago ) that after her daughter moved out that she is going to divorce me.
So the whole time she has been using me. I'm a safe harbor. Babysitter. Bill payer. Only came back so she could go pursue her career while I take the kids.
And cheated on top of it all.
Hurt and betrayed. Devastated. Tried so hard to make it work. To give her what she wanted. To let her fulfill her dreams
I'm just livid.
Been there done that my friend. I tell you this and although it doesn't feel like it, it's going to be the best thing that ever happened to you. The saying when one door closes, another better door opens is true. Trust me, you'll be way happier when the right person comes along, and it will happen. Any self respecting man wouldn't let themselves be crapped on like that. It took me a minute to wake up, but when I did, I was able to live my life my way. You'll get there, be patient
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Been there, got the divorce to prove it. There is better out there. Nobody deserves to be cheated on and walked on. Time will heal, and there is a good one out there who will give you the love and respect you deserve. Don't rush the process. Get back to being happy with YOU and do the things you enjoy. You'll get through it and be a better man for it. Best wishes to you!
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you will look back and say, if it was anyone elses wife pulling that crap, i would have known immediately what the problem was! thats the most frustrating part.
you cant even yell at her, because she already knows what she is. just do not fall back into any type of relationship with her, mike. dead serious bud. she is playing on a level that decent people can not begin to understand.
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