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Originally posted by brokeno View PostWatch out don't let her run up a bunch of credit card debt. Happened to a friend of mine and he had to pay them. Watch your bank account too it will be cleaned out too. Happened to my nephew.
Im hoping she doesent do the credit cards. She doesent have access to my bank accounts thankfully
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Originally posted by Elite13 View PostThankyou for all the help. I hope this isnt as painful as some. At this point she doesent seem to want anything other than her car. Can you do this without getting lawyers involved?
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Originally posted by Elite13 View PostThankyou for all the help. I hope this isnt as painful as some. At this point she doesent seem to want anything other than her car. Can you do this without getting lawyers involved?
Get a lawyer. Ask me how I know.
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Anything else in her name? bank loans? Credit Cards? Bank accounts? Doctor bills? Be advised that creditors may come after you for unpaid accounts, even years from now. Always best to close all accounts and pay them off, or find a way to get your name removed from it. If she stops paying her car note, the creditor will come for you, regardless of what your divorce agreement says.
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Originally posted by Elite13 View PostThankyou for all the help. I hope this isnt as painful as some. At this point she doesent seem to want anything other than her car. Can you do this without getting lawyers involved?
She can have the car but she has to pay for it. Can she get a loan at the bank? You will split all debt and assets acquired after the marriage. That all sounds well and good until you find out your wife doesn’t qualify for a loan on her own. If she can’t get a loan in her name only you are still financially liable. I would call all 3 credit bureaus tomorrow and put a freeze on your credit and cancel/freeze all credit cards.
I don’t know how much cash you have in the bank but go tomorrow and withdraw 50% of it and rat hole it.
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If she does not know about your other accounts I would delete that post. If lawyers get involved, they will find out so no worries leaving it. Sounds like she has moved on, better now than kids and years later. Praying for both of you and hope things work out.
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The best advice I can give is try to agree and go non contested with 1 lawyer, but YOU pick the lawyer and secure them (this is where I messed up). Whomever gets the non contested lawyer is who the lawyer will represent and speak with (at least in my case). More than anything stay busy! Very good advise someone earlier said about that. LIfe gets better, been on round 2 and going strong for going on 14 years this year. Simliar situation, together for 7 years, married for 1.
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