Has anyone dealt with a situation like this? My wife and I were blessed with our first, a boy, the last week of June. I thought if anything his birth might bring our parents closer together but it seems to have done the opposite. We live in Houston, very close to my inlaws and we spend a lot of time with them. My MIL is our boy’s daily caretaker as we both work full time. My inlaws are introverted people who like to keep to themselves and don’t like to travel, especially for holidays. My folks are in Dallas and are extroverts who will talk your ear off, and feel alienated by people who don’t respond well to that. They don’t get along well. Further muddying the water, my folks divorced in 2014. Dad remarried, and mom hasn’t. We have been inviting my parents down to Houston (separately) for holidays the last few years, but they don’t particularly care for spending time with my inlaws and want us to spend more time in Dallas. They say they don’t feel welcomed when they come to Houston. Going to Dallas was difficult before with our work schedules and even more so now that we have an infant. I don’t particularly like making trips to Dallas just to spend one night and would rather keep my son’s routine intact whenever possible. My wife says we should stop trying to please everyone and do what makes us happy. But I know that means spending more time here with her parents and further alienating mine. I wish my inlaws were more friendly with my parents when they visit, and that mine would stop making us feel guilty for living in Houston....
It’s trouble in paradise I suppose. We are very blessed that our son is loved by so many people.
It’s trouble in paradise I suppose. We are very blessed that our son is loved by so many people.
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