Not to get too deep into it but we were asked to "take her" by a lady who's daughter we baby sit 6 days a week for free as it gives our daughter someone to interact with and it's nice to have another child in the house. The mother is young, early 20's, the child is 5. The mother has a hard time making ends meet as the father is currently in prison in Mexico on drug charges. The daughter has from day one ran to the door when I come home and been happy to see me, just like my own daughter is. She's miss-spoke a few times and called me dad and called my wife mom. We've become attached to the child. My wife home schools her with our own 4 year old preparing them for further education and in the last two years we've been doing it we've seen great strides in her reading, writing and comprehension skills. Her mother has no time for her daughter as she's wrapped up in men, her hobbies and..... well everything else. We've spoken to a lawyer and were told to let the child go to an adoption agency. Even though we may be her best bet since her family is not in the picture we were told that there is a less than 10% chance that we'll get her as I'm in the military and I can get "called to move" any time Uncle Sam says so. We fear that she'll get lost in the shuffle and have no chance.
I understand that this may not be the best place to ask for advice but I feel the need to reach out to you all and ask for guidance. I've prayed on it, must admit that God and I are not on the best of terms though.
Richard.
I understand that this may not be the best place to ask for advice but I feel the need to reach out to you all and ask for guidance. I've prayed on it, must admit that God and I are not on the best of terms though.
Richard.
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