My "children" are too old for me to have had this problem but they still had chores to do and responsibilities to take care of. They were reprimanded one way or another if that failed to happen. They however, have this situation to deal with.
One daughter has the perfect solution. Her children get a phone for their 14th birthday. They get it for one purpose only, for the parents to contact them when they needs to. They do not get possession of the phone unless there is a need for it. If they don't answer when she calls or call back in a reasonable time frame, it is assumed they do not need said phone and it will be taken away. If they get too wrapped up in the phone to do chores, help when work is happening, or get an attitude when asked to do something the phone disappears until needed for its intended purpose. So far she has not had problem one with the first (and only so far) child to get a phone!
One daughter has the perfect solution. Her children get a phone for their 14th birthday. They get it for one purpose only, for the parents to contact them when they needs to. They do not get possession of the phone unless there is a need for it. If they don't answer when she calls or call back in a reasonable time frame, it is assumed they do not need said phone and it will be taken away. If they get too wrapped up in the phone to do chores, help when work is happening, or get an attitude when asked to do something the phone disappears until needed for its intended purpose. So far she has not had problem one with the first (and only so far) child to get a phone!
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