Good for you to help out. Is he the farther to any of the kids? Just asking because thinking it would be easier for him just to move along if not.
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In my experience these parasites dont just move on. Why would they? They suck the life out of these woman who support them. Watched my step daughter go through it. Work 2 jobs with 2 girls at home while he sat on his..... they would get into a huge fight everytime the rent was due then show back up after she managed to get it paid. We hope she has finally had enough but not getting our hopes up
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Prayers up for this mom and her kids. I'm glad they have a neighbor who's not too selfish to offer help. I can only imagine the restraint that it would take to not just put a big old country whooping on that dirt bag. Do be careful though. As stated above, domestic situations can become extremely volatile and can turn sideways really quick. Add alcohol or drugs to an already emotional situation and I've seen some very bad things happen. She needs to file for a restraining order asap.
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He’s well known by the local police department. She’s worried CPS will get involved since she has no where to go with the girls. Hopefully we can find her a place soon. For now she’s put a lock on her bedroom door so he can’t get in if he comes after her. Usually only happens late at night after he’s been drinking or doing drugs. Sad situation and I wish I could do more for them right now...
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Have you check to see if there is a local battered woman’s shelter in your area? I was a LEO in San Antonio for 30 years 20 of them by choice on the west side where lower economic and educational/ cultural ways of thinking rarely change. In the 80’s the women would call the police when upset and have the abuser arrested but then be back together after a few days and by the time the DA wanted to review the case they refused to testify. That changed in the 90’s with the county being the complainant domestic assaults. The police don’t fix the problem as many people think it’s the courts and penal institutions that by theory should do that. “It’s not the severity of the punishment but the assurement of the punishment that deters crime”.
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Originally posted by coy-ote View PostHave you check to see if there is a local battered woman’s shelter in your area? I was a LEO in San Antonio for 30 years 20 of them by choice on the west side where lower economic and educational/ cultural ways of thinking rarely change. In the 80’s the women would call the police when upset and have the abuser arrested but then be back together after a few days and by the time the DA wanted to review the case they refused to testify. That changed in the 90’s with the county being the complainant domestic assaults. The police don’t fix the problem as many people think it’s the courts and penal institutions that by theory should do that. “It’s not the severity of the punishment but the assurement of the punishment that deters crime”.
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My wife, before I met her, was in a bad situation. I know she found out about a women's shelter, went there for a month or two. That saved her from the situation she was in. Her ex, was using a lot of drugs and alcohol, he is a POS. But I get told by other people he's not that bad of a guy. Yea sure, not buying it.
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