Hey guys. I created this anonymous account as I’m not ready to let everyone know what is going on with my personal life and I am a long time member and my wife and I know several people on here. But bottom line is we need some prayers. We have gown apart and just don’t enjoy each other’s company any longer. Actually we can’t stand to be around each other. I don’t believe I have any love for her any longer and she says she still has a little for me but not much at all. We have been to counseling and it didn’t help. We both agree it’s time to talk to a divorce attorney and are thinking it would be in our best interest to do a non contested divorce. We agree we will split everything 50/50 including custody and visitation to our child. We are thinking the every other week schedule would be best. I will pay her the standard 20% of my income in child support even though we are doing the 50/50 custody as she will need it. We both truly feel we will be better parents separated than married.
My questions are have any of you done the 50/50 custody and visitation? If so what schedule did you use?
Any of you do a non contested divorce with a child? He is a preteen. We both feel like there is no point in wasting a ton of money in a nasty divorce battle when we are both in agreement on things. We both have said if the custody and visitation is not 50/50 we will just continue to live together miserably vs loosing our child. When I meet her she was going thru a horrible horrible custody battle with her first husband over her older son and nether one of us are willing to do that.
In the end, what I truly wish could happen is somehow God work a miracle and bring us back together where we love each other again and we enjoy each other’s company, but I honestly don’t think that’s going to happen. But hey sometimes unanswered prayers, while they seem so hard to understand at the time, can end up being wonderful.
My questions are have any of you done the 50/50 custody and visitation? If so what schedule did you use?
Any of you do a non contested divorce with a child? He is a preteen. We both feel like there is no point in wasting a ton of money in a nasty divorce battle when we are both in agreement on things. We both have said if the custody and visitation is not 50/50 we will just continue to live together miserably vs loosing our child. When I meet her she was going thru a horrible horrible custody battle with her first husband over her older son and nether one of us are willing to do that.
In the end, what I truly wish could happen is somehow God work a miracle and bring us back together where we love each other again and we enjoy each other’s company, but I honestly don’t think that’s going to happen. But hey sometimes unanswered prayers, while they seem so hard to understand at the time, can end up being wonderful.
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