Hey guys & gals need some advice and maybe even a few prayers. My daughter is about to make me go nuts, she is chasing a guy. She is 22 years old and can make her own choices in life and I know we raised her right.Now don't get me wrong, that might be the way of things now days but, I'm old school and think it should be the other way around. Well to start off with I have not had the pleasure of meeting this young man and that bugs me just a bit. Then she goes and see's him all the time or at least she was when he was here in Dallas then he went to Mississippi for the holidays to visit his family and while he was up there he wrecked his truck and yes he is ok but, apparently he was drinking. Well he's decided to just stay there. Well now for the other part, last month my daughter had some time off and yep, you guessed it she took a road trip to see him. Well some time after she got back she found out he was cheating on her. Ok to me that's the straw that broke the camels back. Fast forward to now and we'll they are talking again and he wants her to come there for a visit or worse maybe even move there. Ok so here is my dilemma, when he was here in Dallas, everytime he was supposed to come out here something always came up. She even went out there one evening to pick him up for dinner, he had to go and do something else. Now when I was dating my wife or any other young lady I always made the attempt to meet the parents.
And this guy, well not getting a chance to meet him well ....being a father you can just imagine how nuts I am. Yes, I have tried my best to explain to her as her Father but, also as a guy who was that age at one time. Now I know my daughter is a smart young lady and we raised her right.
So my question is this, what is a father to do??
I will always be there for her even in the worst of times, that's what we do right?? So do I just let her go and catch her when she falls or continue to try warn her off?? Sorry for the long read, any advice is greatly appreciated.
And this guy, well not getting a chance to meet him well ....being a father you can just imagine how nuts I am. Yes, I have tried my best to explain to her as her Father but, also as a guy who was that age at one time. Now I know my daughter is a smart young lady and we raised her right.
So my question is this, what is a father to do??
I will always be there for her even in the worst of times, that's what we do right?? So do I just let her go and catch her when she falls or continue to try warn her off?? Sorry for the long read, any advice is greatly appreciated.
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