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    Preteen Bully at School

    My daughter is about to pull her hair out dealing with my grand daughter and a bully that seems to be fixated on making her life miserable!

    They have met with the assistant principle and had it under control for a short time and it’s raised its ugly head again!

    She is in the 6th grade in middle school and it’s drama everyday that needs to be brought under control. I realize this drama may be driven by both parties but it is really taking a toll on my grand daughter!

    Anyone dealt with this?

    I did in elementary school but you can’t settle it on the playground anymore!
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    #2
    Problem is that girls are much more viscous than the boys...we dealt with it when Kacie was in 2nd grade. Same deal with just one other mean little girl at the time & was bad. Our daughter was already dealing with health & delayed social issues so we pulled her out & home schooled till we felt she was more prepared which was 7th.

    Turns out this mean little girl is now on the HS cheer squad with my daughter & wife asked her if she remembered Kacie & picking on her which she denies. The bully had her own family life struggles & lives with grandparents, struggles with costs associated with being in cheer / staying on the team & help where we can. She turned into quite a rather sweet & kind young lady which makes me smile.

    I think talks with teachers / principal (as many as it takes) is in order...the way they address bullying is solid in our schools. Would hope yours is the same & should be addressed. Just keep an open mind as you never really know the whole picture at this point.

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      #3
      Cant help with girls but Ihave instructed my boys to let the teacher and me know about the bullying and if it does not stop "kick them in the N&^ts".... I will defend them too the end if it is justified ...

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        #4
        Throat punch maybe?

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          #5
          My oldest son had a problem with a bully for about 2 days. He dumped said bully head over heels in a trash can.
          Aint had a problem since. That was like 6 years ago.

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            #6
            Originally posted by AntlerCollector View Post
            Throat punch maybe?
            I have approved the ***** slap! Her mom says no at this point!

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              #7
              Originally posted by Mace View Post
              Cant help with girls but Ihave instructed my boys to let the teacher and me know about the bullying and if it does not stop "kick them in the N&^ts".... I will defend them too the end if it is justified ...

              I told my daughter the same thing. I also told her if it was a girl and it was not stopping to kick her in the same spot. Hurts a girl just like a boy. My son always did a good job sticking up for the other kids.

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                #8
                Originally posted by AntlerCollector View Post
                Throat punch maybe?
                This will fix a lot!

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                  #9
                  Originally posted by gekko man View Post
                  I have approved the ***** slap! Her mom says no at this point!

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                    #10
                    I'm sorry I have no helpful input, but I pity the bully that decides to pick on my 4 year old daughter. Have mercy she is a short fused firecracker.

                    My 11 year old daughter however has dealt with it a little, but they always seem to work it out over time or completely do away with each other. I think at their age, a lot of it is hormones and the teenage drama years coming into bloom.

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                      #11
                      Middle school is vicious. Sorry that you’re going through it. We’ve only dealt with bullying in elementary school, and although the kid didn’t learn after the first time my son punched him in the face, he did learn after he got socked again. Interestingly, after my boy punched the kid the second time, other kids got courage and have also punched the kid for being a bully. It appears that he has just been a jerk to a lot of people and they got fed up with it and each took their turn at popping him.


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                        #12
                        My son who was 9 at the time gut shot a boy who was bullying his little girl friend.
                        Bully no more.

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                          #13
                          not sure of the section but look in the penal code I think there is a sub section on schools,,, there is a specific part that says the school will maintain a friendly environment,,,, copy it take it to the principal or member of the school board and hand them a phone number from an attorneys office ,, tell them if they do not fix the problem today they will be seeing that number on their caller id followed very quickly by a multi million dollar law suit

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                            #14
                            My dad had three rules about bullies and fighting when I was growing up.

                            1) DO NOT START ANY FIGHTS

                            2) IF SOMEONE PUTS THIER HANDS ON YOU, DONT STOP BEATING THEM UNTIL THEY FULLY UNDERSTAND NEVER TO DO IT AGAIN.

                            3) (this was the big one) IF YOU DO GET INTO A FIGHT AND GET BEAT UP, EXPECT YOUR BEATING TO BE FAR WORSE WHEN YOU GET HOME.

                            He was dead serious about number three. And thank goodness I never had to deal with that one. He made more than one trip to meet with my principal about bullies and fighting. And not one time was I ever in trouble when I got home. Can’t say I ever dealt with a bully more than once either. Lol.




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                              #15
                              Just went through this. An attorney and news media threat goes along way with the school. Look up David's law. They are really cracking down on bullying if the parents push it..

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