Several questions and points I want to make. This is not directed towards any TBH member. Most is just general thoughts.
When I say bully I mean "bully" as in todays bully. Not the real beat your butt down after school bully like when I was a kid. It seems like every single class has a bully now. So 1-20 kids are bullies
1. At what point do you think a kid has the mental capacity to become a bully? IMO it's maybe 4th grade or higher. All kids 4-6 poke each other and call names. That's just what kids do.
2. Why is it when someone is accused on TBH most of the time a lot of members say they have no comment because there's two sides to a story and then the truth in the middle. But when a post hits about a bully 100% of TBH says bully should be dealt with?
My wife is a 1st grade teacher. She has parents tell her about "Johnny" being a bully. Most (not all but most) of the time she watches the kids and they are just being kids. This last week the bullied kid was the one instigating it. And a girl that was "hit" was the one not leaving the little boy alone after he told her several times he didn't want her help.
3. When you teach your kid to hit first do you really think they are old enough to have the right reasoning skills to do that? And what are you going to say to the other parent who taught their kid that same thing when your kid gets punched?
4. I think we all agree real bullies need to be jack slapped down and put in place. But everyone needs to remember kids will be kids (5-8 year olds I'm talking about). Both sides can't be right. And, maybe not here on TBH, but most of the time the bully really isn't a bully.
Teachers feel free to chime in. I know you love the word bully.
When I say bully I mean "bully" as in todays bully. Not the real beat your butt down after school bully like when I was a kid. It seems like every single class has a bully now. So 1-20 kids are bullies
1. At what point do you think a kid has the mental capacity to become a bully? IMO it's maybe 4th grade or higher. All kids 4-6 poke each other and call names. That's just what kids do.
2. Why is it when someone is accused on TBH most of the time a lot of members say they have no comment because there's two sides to a story and then the truth in the middle. But when a post hits about a bully 100% of TBH says bully should be dealt with?
My wife is a 1st grade teacher. She has parents tell her about "Johnny" being a bully. Most (not all but most) of the time she watches the kids and they are just being kids. This last week the bullied kid was the one instigating it. And a girl that was "hit" was the one not leaving the little boy alone after he told her several times he didn't want her help.
3. When you teach your kid to hit first do you really think they are old enough to have the right reasoning skills to do that? And what are you going to say to the other parent who taught their kid that same thing when your kid gets punched?
4. I think we all agree real bullies need to be jack slapped down and put in place. But everyone needs to remember kids will be kids (5-8 year olds I'm talking about). Both sides can't be right. And, maybe not here on TBH, but most of the time the bully really isn't a bully.
Teachers feel free to chime in. I know you love the word bully.
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