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    Ah ha! It turns out, this is quite common! What a relief!!!


    A study found that men begin the unhappiest period in their lives when they hit 70, with complaints that they feel more 'hassled' even though they supposedly have fewer troubles.




    By DAILY MAIL REPORTER
    PUBLISHED: 08:45 EDT, 22 February 2014
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    Grumpy: A study found men begin the unhappiest period when they hit 70, as they begin to suffer from bereavements, health problems and health problems.

    There is some truth to the stereotype of the 'grumpy old man', new research suggests.

    A study found that men begin the unhappiest period in their lives when they hit 70, with complaints that they feel more 'hassled' and depressed even though they supposedly have fewer troubles.

    It's a dramatic turnaround in the mentality of men who, experts believe, become better at shrugging off stress, anxiety and depression up until the age of 65.

    Four fifths said the hassles they faced from the age of 50 receded but then rose after 70 while a fifth reported a surge in happiness from retirement age till 70, then they too experienced a downturn.

    The slump in happiness in later life is thought to be caused by losing loved ones, health problems and mental decline.

    Professor Carolyn Aldwin, from Oregon State University said: 'In general, life gets better as you age in the sense that older adults on average have fewer hassles and respond to them better than younger adults.

    'And they also experienced more uplifts, at least until their mid-70s.'

    She added: 'But once you turn 70, how you react to these hassles changes and may be dependent on your resources or your situation in life.'

    The study, published in the journal Psychology and Ageing, looked at 1,315 men aged 53 to 85 to work out how men's mental states change as they age.

    A previous theory called the hedonic treadmill model suggests that happiness is relatively stable throughout a man's life.

    Another theory had argued that people get happier as they age while a third suggests that life goes downhill once you turn 80.

    'What we found was that among 80 per cent of the men in the study, the hassles they encounter from their early 50s on tended to decline until they reached about 65 to 70 years of age and then they rose,' said Professor Aldwin.

    'Conversely, about 20 per cent of the men perceived experiencing more uplifting events until they turned 65-70 and they begin to decline.'

    Sad times: Four fifths of men said the hassles they faced from the age of 50 receded but then rose after 70 while a fifth reported a surge in happiness from retirement age till 70, then they too experienced a downturn +2
    Sad times: Four fifths of men said the hassles they faced from the age of 50 receded but then rose after 70 while a fifth reported a surge in happiness from retirement age till 70, then they too experienced a downturn

    Researchers found that some men were better than others at dealing with sadness as they got older and turned to family or hobbies to ease their worries.

    #2
    Yea but you're like 85 or 90ish!!

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      #3
      I am "only" 46 but fit that club already..

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        #4
        Boy I'm gonna be a seriously grumpy a##h### when I hit 70. I'm only 55 now and I'm already a grouchy #@##

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          #5
          Haha!

          Love the avatar pic too!

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            #6
            That seems to be a very well written article supporting the legalization of euthanasia.

            Will also solve the social security problem.

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              #7
              Originally posted by Stuck View Post
              That seems to be a very well written article supporting the legalization of euthanasia.

              Will also solve the social security problem.
              I agree! Turned 60 not to long ago, find myself being a lot grouchier than in years past and occasionally have these urges to "euthanize" certain individuals from time to time.

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                #8
                I’m either an overachiever or on the fast start program! [emoji106]

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                  #9
                  Originally posted by RascalArms View Post
                  I’m either an overachiever or on the fast start program! [emoji106]


                  Same here

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                    #10
                    Turning 65 on May 20th, but if I would get off my butt and get in shape like I was 2 years ago, NO WAY I feel 65! My life right now is better than it was in my 30's, 40's and 50's. This is due to getting in shape a few years ago (which I need to do now) and having one hell of a spouse!

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                      #11
                      Originally posted by Mudslinger View Post
                      Turning 65 on May 20th, but if I would get off my butt and get in shape like I was 2 years ago, NO WAY I feel 65! My life right now is better than it was in my 30's, 40's and 50's. This is due to getting in shape a few years ago (which I need to do now) and having one hell of a spouse!

                      Haha...same May 20th birthday here Doug! 1964 model here though. Nothing like a bull headed (or bull sh**in [emoji23]) Taurus!

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                        #12
                        I must suffer from EOG (Early Onset Grumpy)

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                          #13
                          Originally posted by tex4k View Post
                          I agree! Turned 60 not to long ago, find myself being a lot grouchier than in years past and occasionally have these urges to "euthanize" certain individuals from time to time.
                          Especially some of the younger crowd. That'd solve a lot of our older gen problems.

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                            #14
                            Originally posted by stickbowcoop View Post
                            I am "only" 46 but fit that club already..
                            I think the article says your 4 yes away from being able to shrug off stuff and be much happier for the next 20 yrs.

                            I'm only 3 yrs away. So if 50 is when I'm supposed to be happier, does that mean my wife will find out that she has a twin and want to share everything with her? Or maybe she will want to host a hot 20ish yr old latina foreign exchange student.

                            And how can you be unhappy at 70? Between Viagra, Cialis, and other drugs happiness is a swallow away. Plus there are like 5:1 women to men at that age. Should walk around with smile on ur face if you make it that long.

                            Or at least that's what I tell myself the older I get...

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                              #15
                              I'm approaching my 72nd birthday, and I'm rarely unhappy and never depressed.
                              If I do happen to feel a little grumpiness biting at me...
                              Well, I smoke a doobie and make an appointment with my favorite little 48 year old escort.


                              Works every time.
                              Bob Lee

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