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[deer farmer]

Sory to hear about your divorce. Single life is much more fun than married

[miket]

Dangit man. Hate to hear it but at least you have a positive attitude. You cant make her stay. Prayers sent for you.

[Burnadell]

Sorry to hear this, Blake.

We still need to have a gathering for area TBHers. I will work on that next week.

[PondPopper]

For years I've read posts of brothers and sisters getting a divorce. It always made me sad. Now, I find myself in the same situation. I am getting a divorce. Thank God that it is civil and uncontested. I guess I'm one of the lucky ones. Now I just have to figure out how to live on my own. I'm not sad. I don't mourn. I'm disappointed that she would not even consider Marriage Counseling but you can't cry over spilled milk. Look ahead. Keep taking steps forward. How do you eat an elephant? One bite at a time.

Sorry bro about your situation but it sounds like you have your head screwed on right. Good luck.

[boblee]

I've been there twice. My best advice is to
stay on the high road. You were friends before
marriage. Do your part to remain friends afterward.

My first wife is now deceased. We were very
good friends for the last 10 years of her life and
united in support of our children and grandchildren.

My second (and my last) wife stay in touch and
chat from time to time. I helped her move to
a new home as recently as this past November.

If there are children, never - and I mean never -
speak ill of their mother in their presence.

Her fault? Your fault? Nobody's fault? The end
result is the same. There are three sides to every
story; your side, their side and the truth. Which
is generally somewhere in the middle.


Bob Lee

[Dspivey]

sorry to hear this bud.

[Atfulldraw]

life's path is gonna lead you through some sunny patches, a few mud holes, and you may even step in dog crap a time or two.

hang in there.

[Jp.]

Sorry to hear of your divorce. I also am getting one and it hurts at first but now I realize its for the best for us. Our child is 22 so he is not a factor really.
Seems you have a good attitude and thats important. Best of luck.

[quarterback]

There are many here who have had similar experiences. So sad to hear. You have a good attitude though, keep your head up and know that we all have your back.

[Cropduster]

Sorry to learn of this. I have never been in that situation, and pray that I never am. God bless you and may your days be long and full of love. Life has to go on and you make the best of it. God bless you and yours.

[Outback77]

Sorry to hear that. You seem to have a good attitude about it and hope things stay civil

[Cajun Blake]

prayers and support sent B

[curtintex]

Sorry to hear this. I hope it works out well for you.

[crazy8]

It happened to me too. Funny how it turns out. It was a blessing in disguise

[bowhuntermac]

Divorce sucks. Hate you are dealing with it.
Prayers sent.